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Dating & Relationship Coach for Women

YOUR LOVE LIFE IS NOT A PUZZLE YOU CAN'T SOLVE.
There’s always a deeper reason behind the patterns you repeat. Let's uncover them, so you can move forward with peace & clarity.
`START HERE

Dating & Relationship Coach for Women

YOUR LOVE LIFE DOESN'T HAVE TO LOOK LIKE A PUZZLE YOU CAN'T SOLVE.
There’s always a deeper reason behind the patterns you repeat. Let's uncover them, so you can move forward with peace & clarity.
`START HERE

If you are still not familiar with coaching...

Coaching is not therapy. It’s not advice. It’s not me telling you what to do.

It’s a space where we look together—gently but truthfully—at what’s really running your love life.

Most of my clients are smart and self-aware. But awareness alone doesn’t shift patterns.
Coaching helps you:
Understand your subconscious beliefs & emotional triggers
Rewire your energy, not just your thoughts
Build new love dynamics from a place of alignment, not fear
`FIND OUT MORE

If you are still not familiar with coaching...

Coaching is not therapy. It’s not advice. It’s not me telling you what to do.

It’s a space where we look together—gently but truthfully—at what’s really running your love life.

Most of my clients are smart and self-aware. But awareness alone doesn’t shift patterns.
Coaching helps you:
Understand your subconscious beliefs & emotional triggers
Rewire your energy, not just your thoughts
Build new love dynamics from a place of alignment, not fear
`FIND OUT MORE
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Hi, I’m Ayu.

I understand how frustrating it feels to have everything on paper—success, independence, beauty—but still end up with love stories that don’t work.
Maybe you’ve done therapy, read books, tried to be “less intimidating.” But the same kind of pain keeps coming back, just in different forms.

It’s not because you’re broken. You’re just ready for a deeper layer of clarity—and that’s where I come in.

I’m a transformation coach & intuitive guide. I help women untangle the unseen patterns that keep sabotaging their love life, so they can finally create relationships that feel grounded, secure, and aligned with who they are.
`MEET THE COACH
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Hello, beautiful!

I understand how frustrating it feels to have everything on paper—success, independence, beauty—but still end up with love stories that don’t work.

Maybe you’ve done therapy, read books, tried to be “less intimidating.” But the same kind of pain keeps coming back, just in different forms.

It’s not because you’re broken. You’re just ready for a deeper layer of clarity—and that’s where I come in.

I’m a transformation coach & intuitive guide. I help women untangle the unseen patterns that keep sabotaging their love life, so they can finally create relationships that feel grounded, secure, and aligned with who they are.
`MEET THE COACH
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Is this the help I’ve been looking for?

Coaching with me might be right for you if...

You keep attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable—or too intense too soon
You often feel “too much” or “not enough,” even though people see you as confident
You’ve tried healing, but deep down... you still don’t feel safe in love
You can sense there’s something from your past holding you back, but you can’t quite name it
You crave clarity, but you’re tired of overthinking

This is not about fixing you. It’s about returning to who you truly are—before the wounds, before the patterns.

`BOOK DISCOVERY CALL
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Is this the help I’ve been looking for?

Coaching with me might be right for you if...
You keep attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable—or too intense too soon
You often feel “too much” or “not enough,” even though people see you as confident
You’ve tried healing, but deep down... you still don’t feel safe in love
You can sense there’s something from your past holding you back, but you can’t quite name it
You crave clarity, but you’re tired of overthinking
This is not about fixing you. It’s about returning to who you truly are—before the wounds, before the patterns.
`BOOK DISCOVERY CALL

My Signature Approach: Deep, Holistic, Real

Before we work together long-term, every client begins with a 3-Day Intensive Coaching experience.

This is a deep-dive to uncover what’s truly shaping your patterns—from childhood beliefs, subconscious fears, energetic blocks, to ancestral or spiritual baggage you may not even realize you carry.
Step 1: apply
You fill a short form. If we’re aligned, you’ll be invited to schedule a discovery call.
Step 2: 3-day intensive session
In-person or online. A mix of deep coaching, somatic work, and energy release. This resets your internal system.
Step 3: monthly support (optional)
After the intensive session, you can continue with regular sessions—if the timing and intention still feel right for both of us.
This isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. This is sacred, customized work. And it begins with readiness.
`EXPLORE THE SESSION
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You’re not late. You’re right on time.

Maybe it’s not about trying harder. Maybe it’s about trying differently—with support that actually gets you.

You don’t need to do this alone anymore. If your heart is ready, I’ll walk with you through the fog, until you can see your path clearly again.
`APPLY TO WORK WITH ME
"I thought I had a 'type.' Turns out, I had a wound that needed to be healed first."
Corporate leader, 38
"I finally understand what it means to feel emotionally safe without losing myself."
Entrepreneur and mom of 2, 42
"This work touched parts of me that even therapy couldn’t reach."
Divorced, now remarried, 37
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@2025 PT. Ayu Assyamsi Coaching Inc.